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Obesity or overweight is not only increases the risk of disease but also affect a person's sexual life. What then is to be done in order to have sex so fun for those plump-bodied?
Current level of obesity is increasing in number, if one or both spouses have excess weight, sex can become a very real problem.
"Being overweight or obese can be a problem for the couple if the related activities in bed. As one of my clients that the sex life changed when his wife being fat, "says Ian Kerner, consultant in NewYork Times seksologi, as quoted from CNN, Friday (10/2/2012).
A study reported in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy found both men and women are very fat become less satisfied in life seksualnya. While the researchers from Duke University discovered about 30 percent of obese people having issues libido, sexual urge or sexual disorders.
Be not confident is not the only factor involved. This is because the excess weight that can put pressure or stress more on knees and joints that make some sexual positions become uncomfortable.
In addition there is a presumption that a fat person can not last long when sexual intercourse, although this is just a myth. Because there is a study which found fat men can last longer than the 7.3 minutes men skinny.
This condition is likely due to the fat boys have hormone levels of estradiol (female sex hormones) which is higher which makes man can delay the occurrence of climax.
If you have excess weight and have to fight when had sexual intercourse then there are a few things that could be done by the partner are:
1. try a new sex position, a position which does not provide any load on joints. One of them spooning position side by side, rear entry and missionary positions (wife asleep on her back, while the husband sits above my wife) modified by putting a pillow under your hips.
2. making out and enjoying the intimacy, because sex is not just limited to sexual intercourse only. Try committing other sex activities such as providing stimulus to one another, kissing and hugging.
3. try doing something different. If used to make love with bright lights, Dim the lights and then try to rely on the power of fantasy each so don't focus on weight loss.
4. Expand knowledge about sex on obese people so that it can eliminate the myths, increase prices and confidence as well as provide information in detail about sexuality.
"Overweight does not mean your sexual life is over, because with a little creativity and some adjustments, so you can go back and get the satisfaction of pasnagan sex," says Ian Kerner.
